Any man who dares to abuse a woman should be hung upside down, repeatedly whipped and beaten with wooden clubs, burned with cigarette butts, branded with soldering irons, and have his genitals ripped off.
I feel bad. But I am not saying just with regard to this post. It would be better if you address some measures of preventing it, or in general how the society can be improved to over come some these evils. Constructive critisism is the need for the hour.
It would be better if you address some measures of preventing it, or in general how the society can be improved to over come some these evils. Constructive critisism is the need for the hour.
Perhaps you should practice what you preach? Apart from offering vacuous platitudes you haven't really contributed much constructively, forget constructive criticism.
On second thought you seem to be taking a different approach - Close your eyes to anything negative around you and pretend that nothing negative exists. Sort of like an ostrich that buries its head in sand or the cat that closes its eyes and assumes no one is looking.
Wake up and smell the coffee! Get out of your cocoon dude! The world is a much different place than you are imagining it to be...
It seems that the most damaging of crimes are used during times of war. Brutual killing (in its various forms, genocide, murder, blah blah...) is one of them. The other one is rape.
Yet, the way (at least some) societies look at these two crimes is quite divergent. (murder -> lifer/death : rape -> time to get married (at least in some cases) .. no? .. ok some years we guess)
How could such divergence come into being? I say, becuase it is a male dominated society.
Disagree?
If not, then it should be case that people in general, don't consider rape to be as big a 'deal' as murder. But that should not be true, becuase there are enough examples where rape is ordered as a punishment (and the victims arnt exactly treated nice... (readers can add-in the superlatives))
The thing is, in a society where everybody agrees that punishment for a crime must reflect the true nature of the crime, maybe (I don't know) a majority of the section has messed up ideas about rape.
It is just me, or are there others there too who have noticed it? There seems to a whole bunch of human males who seem to think that rape is just a 'sexual crime'. The term 'sexual crime' doesnt describe even a part of it (ok.. just a small part of it). This is a crime of power. A crime of establishing physical control, and trying to establish mental control over the victim. And... It does not stop there. (the high school bully stopped there... and god damn... I hated him... if I had the power, I would have ripped his filthy heart out.. ok not the right thing... but you get the point)
Rape is not limited to women, children can also be victims. (men.... well not unless you are jonny depp in prison) It is crime which majorly exploits the biological nature of a certain section of the population.
The section is not the more dominent among the current population. Hence, I think the difference in outlook.
But... this is what I believe:- agressive species tend to cluster around Local Maximas in the evolutionary space. The human male is one such agressive entity. I think that the human race 'uses' the agressive male for elminating the 'evolutionary enimies'. Due to this nature the male becomes relatively more powerful at times (the local maximas, like right now). But with time, the female has to dominate, and that will be the global maxima, or a higher level of local maxima after which a higher form of life has to come into being.
But then, this may take a time (millions of years..?) Or may be these transitions may overlap (are overlapping?).
PS: (though not related directly to the current discussion) -- A seemingly radical idea is from the "Cult of the new Eve". (they even claim to expose the 'false eves') http://www.critical-art.net/biotech/cone/index.html Cult Of The New Eve
Hi Anonymous, It would have been respectable of you to just pin-point where other people go wrong, or right according to you; instead of choosing to be insulting all the time. No one is going to listen to you if you shoo them away with insults. Secondly, insulting others at the first go would de-balance you, which is not good.
Call me MCP, FCP, feminist, I do not care; except that you might care.
This is a crime of power. A crime of establishing physical control, and trying to establish mental control over the victim. And... It does not stop there.
I agree. I think this is also why you find that conquering armies often engage in rape of the conquered women - its a way of telling the men that there were not strong enough to protect their women. Of course this whole thing relates to the stronger-weaker sex and hunter/nurturer ideas which are starting to change in today's world.
agressive species tend to cluster around Local Maximas in the evolutionary space. The human male is one such agressive entity. I think that the human race 'uses' the agressive male for elminating the 'evolutionary enimies'.
Interesting theory. But how can you say that the entire human race uses the aggressive male for eliminating evolutionary enemies? Take the instance of rape - the only "enemies" it elimiates, from an evolutionary p-o-v, are other males, not other species? Maybe you were trying to say something else?
It would have been respectable of you to just pin-point where other people go wrong, or right according to you;
I tend to agree with what the first "Anonymous" said. It seems like Lavanya is trying to defend Kasturi here (or maybe its the same person!) But if I look at the posts, I see Kasturi doing the same thing which Lavanya accuses "Anonymous" of doing. What gives?
instead of choosing to be insulting all the time. No one is going to listen to you if you shoo them away with insults.
Where is the insult? And it looks atleast one person (Lavanya/Kasturi) is listening!! :-)
Secondly, insulting others at the first go would de-balance you, which is not good.
Is "de-balance" even a word? What does it mean?
Call me MCP, FCP, feminist, I do not care; except that you might care.
I'm completely lost with the above statement! Perhaps there is some off-line argument going on between "Anonymous" and "Kasturi/Lavanya"? If so, may I suggest that you folks keep it offline? Posts which don't contribute to the discussion are very distracting...
Sridhar - What a nice name that "Anonymous" chooses...Anyway, it is very interesting to see even people who have a Ph.D.don't know how to behave or move with people. They live in their own world of criticism. I would rather call them fools. Oh, not to insult you Anonymous/Sridhar...you are God !
Sridhar - What a nice name that "Anonymous" chooses...
Buddy, I have no reason to hide my name.
Anyway, it is very interesting to see even people who have a Ph.D. don't know how to behave or move with people. They live in their own world of criticism. I would rather call them fools.
Heh heh! Dude if you have a gripe against someone else, take it up with them. You are the one making a fool of yourself here.
Oh, not to insult you Anonymous/Sridhar...you are God !
Yeah thanks! Thats what I was waiting for - a proclamation from the Super God Kasthuri!! I guess now I can officially call myself God (with a capital G)!!
You sure have a warped sense of the world. You see two posts both criticizing you immediately assume it must be from the same person even though the names of the posters are not the same! Some logic!! Maybe you should write about and dissect this brilliant theory of yours on your blog...
Whoever this "Anonymous" is, surely has you figured out right!! I haven't seen even a single meaningful comment from you on this blog...
And what's with the Ph.D. stuff? I'll be lucky if I manage to complete my bachelor's degree right now!! But I did some googling and looks like you are the big shot going for a P. H. D.!! And your blog removed all doubts - everything OHT :-)
BTW I thought Ph.D. students were supposed to be doing research - looking at the frequency of your posts you seem to be spending more time trolling the web than working on your P. H. D. My B.S. seems to be tougher than your P. H. D. Maybe I should transfer to TAMU...
Dude, get real and get a life... And stick to writing about things which you are familiar with - like wondering if a set of sets is a set. I guess whoever said P.H.D. stands for Permanent Head Damage wasn't joking, althouh you seem to be experiencing the effects even before you finish!!
Thanks for visiting my blog, but I request you to refrain from insulting others. Comments & criticism on MY postings are welcome but no personal insults.
Please handle your personal differences elsewhere.
There is nothing that I would agree with more. In fact, they should be castrated and let roam free in society with their names publicized as Rapists that need shunned every where every place.
Constructive criticism is not the need of the hour. We need to get brutal and agressive about paedophiles and rapists.
Hi Ramya Read with interest your blogs and realize the anguish in you on the socio-economic ills in our society. Keep up the crusade. At least we will die having a sense of purpose and some acomplishment in life.
I cannot believe you said the below.I believe the muslim relegin and burkha changed you lot .I see you strted hating men.you shoudl remove the burkha and see the reality...
rakesh
At Wed Jul 27, 02:06:04 PM, Ramya Ramaswamy said... > if you address some measures of preventing it,
Hmm inteereesting
(a) How about putting all the men in cages? (b) Do what Delmy Margoth Ruiz did!
But duuh, isn't that exactly what I have suggested in the first place a ‘REMEDY’!!
Visualization is a tool that has been used for thousands of years by initiates of all the metaphysical schools. Today, it is incorporated into top athlete's daily routines and is used in business affairs frequently. It's use is wide-spread among highly successful people, either consciously or unconsciously, aware of its create power. So if it has stood the test of time and is still being used by high achievers we must come to the conclusion that it works! But has it ever worked for you?
If you answered 'yes' to the above question then you know how powerful this technique can be. If, on the other hand, you gave the more likely answer 'no' then take heart for I am about to reveal to you a sure fire way of reaching your objectives through this mostly misunderstood art.
The trouble with visualization is simple - its in its name!
When studying and contemplating the art of visualization most people have the impression that they must create visual images and make them real or life-like. Many people, in fact the majority, find this almost impossible to do. Even if they can formulate a solid picture of their objective they find it extremely difficult to sustain the image for any length of time. Either the image fades, changes or other intruding thoughts intervene.
This type of visualization is almost impossible to sustain and luckily it is not at all necessary. Why? Because it is in the subconscious mind that your visualization needs to be placed and there is good news. The subconscious mind does not know the difference between an imaginary event and a real one. Your visual image only needs to be a strong visually as any other imagined event. However, that is only half the story.
If all you had to do was just imagine stuff and your world automatically changed to reflect your imaginings this world would be full of chaos (not to mention all those creepy crawly bug-eyed monsters!). Therefore, there are a few more steps to complete before the visualization is passed to the subconscious for manifestation.
Let's try a little experiment. Remember a scene from your past that has a lot of good feelings around it. Any good memory will do, like the first time you heard the words "I love you" from your partner, an amazingly spectacular sunset, a great holiday event or your last birthday. Pick one and remember it. How clear is the image? Can you remember any sounds? What way did you feel? Is there any sense of touch, taste or smell? Identify how your memory works. Is it mostly visual, auditory, kinaesthetic or of a feeling nature?
Now we are going to create an imagined event in our lives that has the same strength and potency as that image. So relax and let's go.
Imagine something that you do everyday, something that you did yesterday, today and will do tomorrow. Let us take the example of waking up tomorrow morning. Don't try to add or take anything away, just think about it and analyse the scene. Is it dark or light? Are you lying next to someone in bed? Do you still feel tired? Has the alarm clock sounded? Are you irritable that you have to get up or full of joy at the dawn of a new day?
You will find that the imagined event is very similar to the memory with probably one key difference - your point of perspective. Is the memory behind you and the future event in front of you? Is one to the left and one to the right? Maybe they are both in front of you or the future seems to move in a clockwise direction. Whatever the perspective the thing to notice is that they are very similar in appearance.
Now imagine doing your future event a week from now, then a month from now, then six months from now. Where are those images placed? Are they moving further away, going clockwise, from left to right? This is your time-line and using it is important in visualization as you will see later.
Ok, let's imagine something that is very unlikely to happen and see where it differs from the last image.
Imagine you are sitting somewhere familiar which is extremely comfortable and relaxing to you. Now imagine that a person you know well comes up to where you are and says "hello". Imagine them telling you that they want to show you a new trick. All of a sudden they have three juggling balls. They throw them in the air and begin to juggle with ease. Then they begin to whistle one of your favourite tunes. You suddenly realize that there is a strong smell of flowers in the room and notice a vase of them just behind the juggler. Imagine laughing loudly at the scene and feeling joyful at the experience. Then the person juggling leans forward stands on leg and puts the other leg outstretched behind them. All the while still juggling and whistling. Then they begin to hop on their leg as a small bird flies over to perch on their head. Once you have the imagined event and stayed with it a few moments just let it fade.
Ok open your eyes. What was the difference between the two images? Can you spot any? Did you use more, less or roughly the same senses in your fantasy event as you did in the future one? Did you see them from different angles? Was the picture bigger in one than the other? Was the sound clearer, the feelings more acute or the smell stronger? Take some time and go back to each scene in your mind. How does the future event differ from the fantasy one? Are you looking at both from a different vantage point? Do you see yourself in the image of one but not the other? Analyse the scenes and see where they differ.
Have you identified how the future event differs from the fantasy one? If you have then its time to make visualization work for you! Take a goal that you have been working on or would like to achieve. Nothing too far-fetched at this point please! Pick something that is possible but at the moment seems a little impractical. Once you have it form a mental image of what it would be like to have, be or do that thing or be in that experience. Remember to form it the same way you do a memory. Give it the same strength visually, in sound, feeling, taste and touch - use your mind in its natural state. All you have to do is imagine the scene.
Ok how does it differ from the scene of waking in the morning? Can you identify the differences in perspective, sound, taste, touch, feelings and what you hear?
Now there will be one other key thing that differs in the images- it is very simple but often overlooked. You know that the future event is going to happen! This is reflected in the way we experience the image. So what we are going to do is fool your subconscious mind into thinking your goal is definitely going to happen by manipulating your goal image!
Once you know what the differences are in each image begin to change the goal image so that it is seen the same way as the future event in your imagination. Place the visualized scene in exactly the same position with the same perspective as your future event.
Place it in the correct position on your time-line. You may already begin to feel that the goal is more possible. Visualise in this way everyday and you will condition your subconscious mind to manifest the experiences necessary to make your goal attainment certain.
One more thing to remember: During the day think about your goal often. This reinforces the visualization and will begin to dispel doubt from your mind. self hypnosis
29 Comments:
Ramya,
Your blog looks too much of negatives!
Why ? Enna aachu...
Same thing should be applied for women too, right? ;-)
Kasthuri, how do you feel when you read the news everyday about the rapes?
It infuriates me.
I feel bad. But I am not saying just with regard to this post. It would be better if you address some measures of preventing it, or in general how the society can be improved to over come some these evils. Constructive critisism is the need for the hour.
To Kasthuri
It would be better if you address some measures of preventing it, or in general how the society can be improved to over come some these evils. Constructive critisism is the need for the hour.
Perhaps you should practice what you preach? Apart from offering vacuous platitudes you haven't really contributed much constructively, forget constructive criticism.
On second thought you seem to be taking a different approach - Close your eyes to anything negative around you and pretend that nothing negative exists. Sort of like an ostrich that buries its head in sand or the cat that closes its eyes and assumes no one is looking.
Wake up and smell the coffee! Get out of your cocoon dude! The world is a much different place than you are imagining it to be...
Dear Anonymous Dude,
Emperor's new clothes ?!!!
> if you address some measures of preventing it,
Hmm inteereesting
(a) How about putting all the men in cages?
(b) Do what Delmy Margoth Ruiz did!
But duuh, isn't that exactly what I have suggested in the first place a ‘REMEDY’!!
Kasthuri:
Dear Anonymous Dude,
One more MCP :-)
Do you even know the story about the emperor's new clothes? Doesn't look you do...
It seems that the most damaging of crimes are used during times of war.
Brutual killing (in its various forms, genocide, murder, blah blah...) is one of them. The other one is rape.
Yet, the way (at least some) societies look at these two crimes is quite divergent.
(murder -> lifer/death : rape -> time to get married (at least in some cases) .. no? .. ok some years we guess)
How could such divergence come into being?
I say, becuase it is a male dominated society.
Disagree?
If not, then it should be case that people in general, don't consider rape to be as big a 'deal' as murder. But that should not be true, becuase there are enough examples where rape is ordered as a punishment (and the victims arnt exactly treated nice... (readers can add-in the superlatives))
The thing is, in a society where everybody agrees that punishment for a crime must reflect the true nature of the crime, maybe (I don't know) a majority of the section has messed up ideas about rape.
It is just me, or are there others there too who have noticed it? There seems to a whole bunch of human males who seem to think that rape is just a 'sexual crime'.
The term 'sexual crime' doesnt describe even a part of it (ok.. just a small part of it).
This is a crime of power. A crime of establishing physical control, and trying to establish mental control over the victim. And... It does not stop there. (the high school bully stopped there... and god damn... I hated him... if I had the power, I would have ripped his filthy heart out.. ok not the right thing...
but you get the point)
Rape is not limited to women, children can also be victims. (men.... well not unless you are jonny depp in prison)
It is crime which majorly exploits the biological nature of a certain section of the population.
The section is not the more dominent among the current population. Hence, I think the difference in outlook.
But... this is what I believe:-
agressive species tend to cluster around Local Maximas in the evolutionary space. The human male is one such agressive entity. I think that the human race 'uses' the agressive male for elminating the
'evolutionary enimies'. Due to this nature the male becomes relatively more powerful at times (the local maximas, like right now).
But with time, the female has to dominate, and that will be the global maxima, or a higher level of local maxima after which a higher form of life has to come into being.
But then, this may take a time (millions of years..?) Or may be these transitions may overlap (are overlapping?).
PS: (though not related directly to the current discussion) --
A seemingly radical idea is from the
"Cult of the new Eve". (they even claim to expose the 'false eves')
http://www.critical-art.net/biotech/cone/index.html
Cult Of The New Eve
Hi Anonymous,
It would have been respectable of you to just pin-point where other people go wrong, or right according to you; instead of choosing to be insulting all the time. No one is going to listen to you if you shoo them away with insults. Secondly, insulting others at the first go would de-balance you, which is not good.
Call me MCP, FCP, feminist, I do not care; except that you might care.
Lavanya.
This is a crime of power. A crime of establishing physical control, and trying to establish mental control over the victim. And... It does not stop there.
I agree. I think this is also why you find that conquering armies often engage in rape of the conquered women - its a way of telling the men that there were not strong enough to protect their women. Of course this whole thing relates to the stronger-weaker sex and hunter/nurturer ideas which are starting to change in today's world.
agressive species tend to cluster around Local Maximas in the evolutionary space. The human male is one such agressive entity. I think that the human race 'uses' the agressive male for elminating the
'evolutionary enimies'.
Interesting theory. But how can you say that the entire human race uses the aggressive male for eliminating evolutionary enemies? Take the instance of rape - the only "enemies" it elimiates, from an evolutionary p-o-v, are other males, not other species? Maybe you were trying to say something else?
It would have been respectable of you to just pin-point where other people go wrong, or right according to you;
I tend to agree with what the first "Anonymous" said. It seems like Lavanya is trying to defend Kasturi here (or maybe its the same person!) But if I look at the posts, I see Kasturi doing the same thing which Lavanya accuses "Anonymous" of doing. What gives?
instead of choosing to be insulting all the time. No one is going to listen to you if you shoo them away with insults.
Where is the insult? And it looks atleast one person (Lavanya/Kasturi) is listening!! :-)
Secondly, insulting others at the first go would de-balance you, which is not good.
Is "de-balance" even a word? What does it mean?
Call me MCP, FCP, feminist, I do not care; except that you might care.
I'm completely lost with the above statement! Perhaps there is some off-line argument going on between "Anonymous" and "Kasturi/Lavanya"? If so, may I suggest that you folks keep it offline? Posts which don't contribute to the discussion are very distracting...
Sridhar - What a nice name that "Anonymous" chooses...Anyway, it is very interesting to see even people who have a Ph.D.don't know how to behave or move with people. They live in their own world of criticism. I would rather call them fools. Oh, not to insult you Anonymous/Sridhar...you are God !
Ramya,
You may choose to delete some comments if you feel they are digressing. No hard feelings.
Lavanya.
Sridhar - What a nice name that "Anonymous" chooses...
Buddy, I have no reason to hide my name.
Anyway, it is very interesting to see even people who have a Ph.D. don't know how to behave or move with people. They live in their own world of criticism. I would rather call them fools.
Heh heh! Dude if you have a gripe against someone else, take it up with them. You are the one making a fool of yourself here.
Oh, not to insult you Anonymous/Sridhar...you are God !
Yeah thanks! Thats what I was waiting for - a proclamation from the Super God Kasthuri!! I guess now I can officially call myself God (with a capital G)!!
You sure have a warped sense of the world. You see two posts both criticizing you immediately assume it must be from the same person even though the names of the posters are not the same! Some logic!! Maybe you should write about and dissect this brilliant theory of yours on your blog...
Whoever this "Anonymous" is, surely has you figured out right!! I haven't seen even a single meaningful comment from you on this blog...
And what's with the Ph.D. stuff? I'll be lucky if I manage to complete my bachelor's degree right now!! But I did some googling and looks like you are the big shot going for a P. H. D.!! And your blog removed all doubts - everything OHT :-)
BTW I thought Ph.D. students were supposed to be doing research - looking at the frequency of your posts you seem to be spending more time trolling the web than working on your P. H. D. My B.S. seems to be tougher than your P. H. D. Maybe I should transfer to TAMU...
Dude, get real and get a life... And stick to writing about things which you are familiar with - like wondering if a set of sets is a set. I guess whoever said P.H.D. stands for Permanent Head Damage wasn't joking, althouh you seem to be experiencing the effects even before you finish!!
Sridhar & the rest,
Thanks for visiting my blog, but I request you to refrain from insulting others. Comments & criticism on MY postings are welcome but no personal insults.
Please handle your personal differences elsewhere.
Thanks
There is nothing that I would agree with more. In fact, they should be castrated and let roam free in society with their names publicized as Rapists that need shunned every where every place.
Constructive criticism is not the need of the hour. We need to get brutal and agressive about paedophiles and rapists.
i support ur view 100% .such punishment will act as a deterrent to other perverted minds...
uma
Severe punishment needs to be meted out to these kind of criminals. Almost every day there is an article about some small child being kidnapped..
Hi Ramya
Read with interest your blogs and realize the anguish in you on the socio-economic ills in our society. Keep up the crusade. At least we will die having a sense of purpose and some acomplishment in life.
Isn't that a little extreme ? wouldn't a simple death penalty be enough...I figure its a more realistic solution.....
jayanth,
it will never deter people ! :-(
My advice to future rapists ....find a prostitute ..and do your thing ...thats it... Never force ur self mentally or physically on others !!
Ramya,
I assume the same punishment would hold for women who sexually harass men?
Your post seems to be a one-sided view!
Ramya Ramaswamy ..
I cannot believe you said the below.I believe the muslim relegin and burkha changed you lot .I see you strted hating men.you shoudl remove the burkha and see the reality...
rakesh
At Wed Jul 27, 02:06:04 PM, Ramya Ramaswamy said...
> if you address some measures of preventing it,
Hmm inteereesting
(a) How about putting all the men in cages?
(b) Do what Delmy Margoth Ruiz did!
But duuh, isn't that exactly what I have suggested in the first place a ‘REMEDY’!!
pity ...somethings never change ..
sad ... we knw this and never change ...
Visualization is a tool that has been used for thousands of years by initiates of all the metaphysical schools. Today, it is incorporated into top athlete's daily routines and is used in business affairs frequently. It's use is wide-spread among highly successful people, either consciously or unconsciously, aware of its create power. So if it has stood the test of time and is still being used by high achievers we must come to the conclusion that it works! But has it ever worked for you?
If you answered 'yes' to the above question then you know how powerful this technique can be. If, on the other hand, you gave the more likely answer 'no' then take heart for I am about to reveal to you a sure fire way of reaching your objectives through this mostly misunderstood art.
The trouble with visualization is simple - its in its name!
When studying and contemplating the art of visualization most people have the impression that they must create visual images and make them real or life-like. Many people, in fact the majority, find this almost impossible to do. Even if they can formulate a solid picture of their objective they find it extremely difficult to sustain the image for any length of time. Either the image fades, changes or other intruding thoughts intervene.
This type of visualization is almost impossible to sustain and luckily it is not at all necessary. Why? Because it is in the subconscious mind that your visualization needs to be placed and there is good news. The subconscious mind does not know the difference between an imaginary event and a real one. Your visual image only needs to be a strong visually as any other imagined event. However, that is only half the story.
If all you had to do was just imagine stuff and your world automatically changed to reflect your imaginings this world would be full of chaos (not to mention all those creepy crawly bug-eyed monsters!). Therefore, there are a few more steps to complete before the visualization is passed to the subconscious for manifestation.
Let's try a little experiment. Remember a scene from your past that has a lot of good feelings around it. Any good memory will do, like the first time you heard the words "I love you" from your partner, an amazingly spectacular sunset, a great holiday event or your last birthday. Pick one and remember it. How clear is the image? Can you remember any sounds? What way did you feel? Is there any sense of touch, taste or smell? Identify how your memory works. Is it mostly visual, auditory, kinaesthetic or of a feeling nature?
Now we are going to create an imagined event in our lives that has the same strength and potency as that image. So relax and let's go.
Imagine something that you do everyday, something that you did yesterday, today and will do tomorrow. Let us take the example of waking up tomorrow morning. Don't try to add or take anything away, just think about it and analyse the scene. Is it dark or light? Are you lying next to someone in bed? Do you still feel tired? Has the alarm clock sounded? Are you irritable that you have to get up or full of joy at the dawn of a new day?
You will find that the imagined event is very similar to the memory with probably one key difference - your point of perspective. Is the memory behind you and the future event in front of you? Is one to the left and one to the right? Maybe they are both in front of you or the future seems to move in a clockwise direction. Whatever the perspective the thing to notice is that they are very similar in appearance.
Now imagine doing your future event a week from now, then a month from now, then six months from now. Where are those images placed? Are they moving further away, going clockwise, from left to right? This is your time-line and using it is important in visualization as you will see later.
Ok, let's imagine something that is very unlikely to happen and see where it differs from the last image.
Imagine you are sitting somewhere familiar which is extremely comfortable and relaxing to you. Now imagine that a person you know well comes up to where you are and says "hello". Imagine them telling you that they want to show you a new trick. All of a sudden they have three juggling balls. They throw them in the air and begin to juggle with ease. Then they begin to whistle one of your favourite tunes. You suddenly realize that there is a strong smell of flowers in the room and notice a vase of them just behind the juggler. Imagine laughing loudly at the scene and feeling joyful at the experience. Then the person juggling leans forward stands on leg and puts the other leg outstretched behind them. All the while still juggling and whistling. Then they begin to hop on their leg as a small bird flies over to perch on their head. Once you have the imagined event and stayed with it a few moments just let it fade.
Ok open your eyes. What was the difference between the two images? Can you spot any? Did you use more, less or roughly the same senses in your fantasy event as you did in the future one? Did you see them from different angles? Was the picture bigger in one than the other? Was the sound clearer, the feelings more acute or the smell stronger? Take some time and go back to each scene in your mind. How does the future event differ from the fantasy one? Are you looking at both from a different vantage point? Do you see yourself in the image of one but not the other? Analyse the scenes and see where they differ.
Have you identified how the future event differs from the fantasy one? If you have then its time to make visualization work for you! Take a goal that you have been working on or would like to achieve. Nothing too far-fetched at this point please! Pick something that is possible but at the moment seems a little impractical. Once you have it form a mental image of what it would be like to have, be or do that thing or be in that experience. Remember to form it the same way you do a memory. Give it the same strength visually, in sound, feeling, taste and touch - use your mind in its natural state. All you have to do is imagine the scene.
Ok how does it differ from the scene of waking in the morning? Can you identify the differences in perspective, sound, taste, touch, feelings and what you hear?
Now there will be one other key thing that differs in the images- it is very simple but often overlooked. You know that the future event is going to happen! This is reflected in the way we experience the image. So what we are going to do is fool your subconscious mind into thinking your goal is definitely going to happen by manipulating your goal image!
Once you know what the differences are in each image begin to change the goal image so that it is seen the same way as the future event in your imagination. Place the visualized scene in exactly the same position with the same perspective as your future event.
Place it in the correct position on your time-line. You may already begin to feel that the goal is more possible. Visualise in this way everyday and you will condition your subconscious mind to manifest the experiences necessary to make your goal attainment certain.
One more thing to remember: During the day think about your goal often. This reinforces the visualization and will begin to dispel doubt from your mind. self hypnosis
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